I want to start off by saying that I don’t know how exactly God is going to reveal Himself to you, but I firmly believe He will at some point. And we have to be quick to respond, not to say God is not patient in waiting, but at some point He will stop knocking.
One of the most difficult challenges for a Christian is learning to recognize the voice of God. How do you know it’s God talking to you or the enemy or just your concise? God can speak to you in a dream, a vision, a voice in your head, an out-of-body experience, through a minister during preaching, teaching, or counselling just to name a few. You will know without a doubt it is Him, because when He answers, it will be in a manner that nobody knew you were dealing with except yourself. It’s one way to know if someone did hear from God when they share something with you that only you know about because you never shared it with anybody else. It’s as if someone is reading your personal mail; also this person is just a messenger, he/she shouldn’t be judgmental and should be willing to pray with you.